The second time, the thought crossed my mind: How odd is that? I took a leap the night we met. He shook my hand, and I fell into that handshake.
His life is extraordinary, but our life together is like all relationships—full of our own issues as we try to figure it out. Let me paint you a picture: You may have a lot of stress in your day, and you may get home and your feet are killing you or your boss is driving you insane, or you may wish you could just QUIT.
As such, you take your life experiences in dating and working and expect a reaction and pattern in communication similar to those you are used to based on such experiences. Your expectations are not crazy, invalid, or wrong.
Now, does this mean they never call? There will be bars, and strip clubs, and clubs.
I know plenty of the guys that never go out at all. For me, personally, I am happy for my husband to have a good time on the road. There are parts of his job he will share, and you should listen. He may be the type to open up about everything, he may be the type to hold a lot in. There are many things he will not be allowed to share. At the end of the day, his job is a government job with many What to expect when dating a navy seal elements.
Have a job, have hobbies, have friends, have nights out, have trips without him, have plans. Bring something to the table too! If your world revolves around the sun that is HE, you will become a lonely freak who calls him 25 times a day and cries a lot…. Read Lean Inand get moving.
A sexy woman is a woman with something to DO! Just mostly, use your brain. Be the team gossip. In any tight-knit community, people will gossip. Who is dating who, who cheated on who, who is out dancing every night while her man is away, etc.
I will never forget the first time I met one of my now-dearest friends, we were at a lunch with about 5 women and some major gossip was being thrown down, and she smoothly smiled and excused herself to make a call. Upon heading to the restroom a few minutes later I saw her sitting on a bench near the entrance, not on a call. I knew then, we needed to become BFF. Want to live in your hometown.
Be unable to sleep alone. If you need to share your bed, this will be pretty tough for you. You hold a phone more than a man sometimes not all the time! You hug a computer.