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Graduate student dating freshman


Well, I'm a male grad student. Graduate student dating freshman would date an undergrad. In fact, I have to look at the undergrad population, because there aren't that many grad students comparatively and most are either married or in long-term relationships.

Seriously, like in my research group alone, I'm the only single guy. Maturity isn't just a factor of age. I've seen girls who are older than me who I don't think are that mature.

The only real big "conflict of interest" issue is if the guy is your TA and grades your work. I don't think it's a really big issue though if you're not trying to just use him to get a better grade, because often times people fall in situations where they're grading the class that a friend is taking, and the possibility of favoritism is no less of a risk there. To be on the safe side, the guy can always ask someone else to grade your work too.

There is usually more than one grader for a course, and even if there isn't, it's usually not hard to find somebody. That pretty much clears up any ethical questions. Also, "conflict of interest" is rampant in graduate classes.

I took a grad class as an undergrad once, where the problems were so hard, the TA couldn't do them! But Graduate student dating freshman TA got the answer key from the prof in advance, so a lot of the students in the class Graduate student dating freshman were friends of the TA got hook-ups.

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I'd, on the other hand, spend 20 hours to figure it out on my own Now that I'm a grad student, I kind of see their perspective though. If he cares about you then who cares about grad or undergrad schools. Love will always bridge the gap. You should definitely go for it because if you don't; you will always wonder if you did. Most grad students teach so there's a potential conflict of interest, particularly if the undergrad is in the same department.

When I was a grad student, there were definitely undergrads I'd have liked to date. The problem was that the only place I really met undergrads was in my classes which Graduate student dating freshman TAed or lectured.

Because of the risks of the appearance of abusing a position of power I could never ask any of them out. Graduate student dating freshman one would have asked ME out, I'd have done it right after grades were in. Unfortunately, girls don't tend to ask guys out in general, so that never happened. Bottom line, there's a LOT of risk for a grad student to ask out one of his students, but no real downside if an undergrad asks out a grad student.

I'm a 28 year old male graduate student and am far more interested in dating undergrads then women my own age.

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