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I dated quite a few younger men in my 40s I just turned My first younger man experience was with an adorable year-old I met not long after I turned We were together off and on for 4 years.

The President of France is married to a woman 24 years his elder, for goddsake. These days women my age seem to take WAY better care of ourselves than men my age.

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The only people who gave us strange looks were usually bouncers, who always gave my ID a double take when I walked in to a bar with him. I found that very flattering, however. Living the single life in Los Angeles, dating was very difficult.

I was highly resistant to dating younger at first, but it seemed like they were the only ones who approached me when I was out and about. I actually wrote an essay about how much I hate it. Men tend to sexually peak at a young age, while women peak in their 30ss. Is this some cruel trick nature played on monogamous couples who get married young?

Or a boon to the still-attractive woman who may have been dumped by her husband for younger? Because now she can, post-divorce, Hookup a guy who has never been married have the best sex of her life with sexy, taut younger men?

I know I definitely started having better sex in my 40s than anytime before. When I was in my 20s, I was truthfully a neurotic mess when it came to sex. Ironically, despite my body being less sleek, trim and smooth than those days, I have WAY more confidence.

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Back then I was an idiot who insisted on sex with the lights out. You find it fun to teach someone younger than you about how it was back in the day. One day, my first much younger boyfriend texted me: Have you ever seen the movie Say Anything? That movie was life when I was in high school.

He was born the year I graduated high school. Lots of people born in the 80s romanticize the era. They have no idea what it was really like to have a doddering old fogey president who joked about bombing the Soviet Union and diddled while people died of AIDS.

Or how to make a budget. Or how not to get arrested for drinking too much.

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