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They Swinger meet and greet pictures and maybe chatted a bit, but nothing came of it. They might set a date to meet for drinks and then get canceled on a the last minute.

They tried going to a local swing club, but everyone seemed to already know each other. I hear this time and time again from new and experienced swingers. We noticed the same things until we started participating in, and eventually hosting, Meet and Greets. Meet and Greets are a fun, low-pressure, inexpensive way to meet new people. They are great events for new and experienced swingers.

If there is not already a thriving meet and greet in your community you can start one! Running a meet and greet is actually quite simple. If you like to meet people, have a swinger web profile and a little time you can set up a great meet and greet in your community. Here is a step by step guide:. Create a group on a swinger website that is active in your area.

We use Swingerzonecentral, Swinglifestyle and Kasidie. Put the name of your area and meet and greet in your group name. For example, Anytown Meet and Greets. We have ours as a private group. Decide on rules for group admission. Ours is open to couples and singles. We require that they have a face pic available online. Couples and singles over age 30 are welcome. Please open a face picture when you request to join. It should be a public place like a bar or small dance club with no cover or a very inexpensive Swinger meet and greet. We go to a small dance club that is very busy on Saturday nights, but almost dead on Friday nights.

You may need to visit a few places on the night you want to Swinger meet and greet your group to decide on the place. We always meet on a Friday night because most swing clubs and house parties are on Saturday nights around here. So people can go out and meet on Friday and then really party on Saturday to maximize their weekend. This has been important for our group. We start at 8pm, if you are meeting at a bar without a dance floor you could start at 7.

We have a mylar balloon that I write our group name on at our table for the meet. Give the location with address and the time you plan to start. More on wristbands below.

Start inviting people to the group. Note this is step five. Do not invite anyone without a planned event. A group on the website is boring without an event. If you are really interested in someone, send them a nice note saying you invited them to the group and hope they join and can make it to the event.

You can decide whether to include singles. We do but they almost never come to the group. We try to talk to singles and ask if they are truly single, not married, because our group is not interested in cheaters. People will email you about joining the group.

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