In this post, I go over my experience: I wrote this post about my dating experience in Medellin back in April of Places frequented by tourists in Medellin are more saturated with foreigners than before. I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism and prostitution in Colombia and I know that there are many strip clubs and brothels in Medellin; however, strippers and pros are not the types of girls that I date, Colombia sex tour is it something I would like to promote; therefore, I will not be referring to that in this post.
Also, this is a narrative of my own experiences. It is not meant to be a guide or advice for other guys. Lastly, I do not intend to degrade or belittle women. Medellin just happens to have many of them. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.
At first glance, Medellin women do not perceive me as a foreigner due to the way I look. It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner. I do not get that immediate attention here in Medellin.
Regardless, I look on the bright side and see this as an advantage. I have found that Medellin women, as in most parts of the world, love compliments and like it when a guy can make them laugh.
So Spanish has been essential for me here in Medellin. Meeting women in Medellin is not hard. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to meeting. It is not usual for women in Medellin to go out by themselves just to let loose. Typically, very beautiful girls in Medellin will go to a "Colombia sex tour" or a nightclub in a group, and there will be guys in that group usually.
For an emasculated man from the United States, this is a nightmare. Here in Medellin, you do NOT Colombia sex tour to play that game. I do this often, and many times I will dance one or two songs without even saying a word. I get in there and leave silently. Amazingly, when I do that, women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing. I started to read about this subject back "Colombia sex tour" high school.
I meet women in Medellin by just living my life. Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street. Do not even get me started on the gym, it is almost like a circus sideshow in there. On the street, I am usually attracted to women who look as if they are on their way to an office job. Generally, these women will be dressed and Colombia sex tour. I can tell they are going to Colombia sex tour because normally they will have a badge around their neck or pinned to their shirt or pants.
Professional women who are educated and have an active daily routine are abundant in Medellin.
In Medellin, you Colombia sex tour also find a lot of beautiful, smart women who have their own business or work independently. Being an entrepreneur my self this is a trait that I fancy. This is the type of woman that will discuss politics, religion, fashion, etc, and at the end of the date pull out Colombia sex tour wallet and offer to split the bill and sometimes even pay for the whole meal.
It always annoys me when foreigners say that they always have to pay when they go on dates with Paisa girls, blaming the women and saying that Medellin women only want to take advantage of them. I teach English here in Medellin. I do NOT date my students. I am very North American in that regard. Though dating students in Medellin is not uncommon and sometimes not even frowned upon, it is definitely not acceptable in the United States, so I draw a line and never cross it.
Students will add me on Facebook and then their friends and cousins will add me. That has served to be an abundant source Colombia sex tour women here in Medellin.
Facebook is huge here, and striking up a conversation via facebook messenger after being added is not hard. This was a new friend I made and decided to pick up for the picture at Carnaval de Barranquilla. Most Medellin girls are pretty shy by nature.
You have to understand that even though Medellin and the metropolitan area has around four million inhabitants it is still a small town.
Medellin is a conservative city which is very much in touch with its old traditions and customs. Family life is very traditional. Gender roles are also very conservative and defined, so logically the women here, for the most part, are timid until you get some alcohol in them and play some reggaeton, but we will get to that in a later blog post.
Even for a fluent Spanish speaker, I have found it frustrating sometimes. Many a time have I given up on a girl only to find out later that she was very interested.
One night stands with women in Medellin are not very common for me.
I definitely experienced more of this living in southern California than here in Medellin. A foreign-looking guy could probably have a very different experience. I have found that being honest with women in Medellin is the best rout.