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Single ladies in their 30s

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I know what it's like to be single in your 30s—most of the time, it's pretty great. Sure, there will always be situations and occasions that seem to draw a lot of unwanted attention to the fact that you're currently unattached weddings, holidays, cooking for one, and figuring out how to best answer "Single ladies in their 30s" question, "So, why are you still single? Do I want to meet that special someone? Would it be great if he could hurry up and get here already?

We all just want someone to love and someone to share in this messy, beautiful journey of life. Because learning to be happily single isn't something that's often spoken about, it's up to us as individuals to school ourselves Single ladies in their 30s our perception of what it really means to be single and to choose to see things differently.

You deserve love no matter where you are on your journey. But before I tell you what being single in your 30s has come to mean to me, let start with something else. It doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you.

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It doesn't mean that you can only find love once you've fixed some mysterious. It doesn't mean you will only be worthy of love once you've collected a specific set of desirable attributes. It doesn't mean that you will be single forever.

And, most importantly, it does not mean that you are incapable of enjoying your life right now. The truth is, none of us is easy to love. But we are all deeply and fully worthy of the effort.