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After a new survey revealed nearly a third of women wait three weeks, or until their fifth date, we asked three readers for their own experiences. Alison Palmer asked three readers how long it took for them to get between the sheets with their partner Emma and Henry Hunt live in Alsager, Cheshire.

Emma, 35, is a stay-at-home mum to George four.

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Henry, 33, is a contracts manager. By the time I slept with Henry I had fallen for him hook, line and sinker, and I think he felt the same way about me. Besides which, we enjoyed the anticipation of sex — putting it off because the thought of it was so exciting. I really fancied him. We met through an online dating agency. Our first date was at Alton Towers. As we screamed our way around every roller coaster in the theme park I knew I had met a man I wanted to see again.

On the second date, we went into Chester for lunch, had dinner… did all the usual things two people getting to know one another do. I could tell we were getting closer. Then after dinner one night we went back to his house and, well, it seemed the most natural thing in the world to take our relationship to the next step. Sex was the icing on the cake — the cherry on top.

We married in and are still blissfully happy. I knew I wanted a "How long to wait before hookup someone" with him and, strange as it sounds, sex might have spoiled that. She did and soon we were sending messages to one another. He was living in Pontefract and I was in Ireland but just about to return to Yorkshire.

A few weeks later, I invited him over to celebrate my birthday. We both felt so strongly about one another so quickly we wanted to firm the foundations before we jumped How long to wait before hookup someone bed. In fact, we hung on for two more dates — even though both times he came up to the room for a nightcap and a bit of a kiss and cuddle — but on the fourth date that was it, nature took its course.

And next month, on May 31, my birthday and almost five years to the day of our first date, I finally become Mrs Booth. Olga Frankow, 30, and her husband of two years Rafael, 27, live in East London. Olga works in an investment bank and Rafael at an accessories distribution company.

It was March and two friends and I had gone out to visit a friend who was living in Krakow, Poland. At first I tried to brush him off, but my friends nudged me and told me to go for it so we danced. He told me his name was Rafael and then we went over to the bar to have a drink.

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He is Austrian and was there on holiday with friends, male and female. He was so lovely — charming, sweet, kind — and I could feel my heart racing.

I really liked him. We had so much in common and he was intelligent and witty. We had the most romantic bubble bath together and then made love. However, when I got home a couple of days later, there was an email waiting.

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It was from Rafael. We Skyped continuously and a month later he came to visit me for 10 days. I was blown away. It was hard being apart but we tried to see one another once a month until, just over a year after meeting, Rafael got a job near me and we moved in together. A year after that my work brought us to London and we married on December 1, Once upon a time I might have turned my nose up at a woman who slept with a man on the first date, but sometimes the heart takes over.

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