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The rules of dating have changed.

Forget that stuff about playing hard to get, expecting the man to pay, and never having sex on a first date. Read on to discover the new rules of engagement. Many profiles on dating websites start with statements like: The writers are doing themselves no favours.

Confidence is sexy; arrogance is not.

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Redebahia online dating The aim of the online dating game is to catch the eye of someone you have lots in common with. You do this by being original and, above all, specific about your interests. State which tracks you enjoy, and your favourite place to see your friends.

Specific information does more than make you sound interesting — it also gives potential dates something to write to you about. Most grown-ups have a history of exes, hang-ups and maybe a nervous breakdown or two.

But never admit it to a new or potential lover. Keep schtum until you know each other better. Some online dating profiles read like shopping lists. These lists are off-putting for two reasons.

First, they make the writer sound like a control freak. A picture-less ad says: Everyone who likes your main photo will want to see more. Post at least two snaps.

An overly flattering photo will backfire. The potential dates come knocking, and then what?

The aim of the online...

You meet, and the blood drains from their face as they realise that your photo was taken 10 years, five stone and wrinkles ago. You may be disappointed in person. Find out more on how to tell if a guy likes you.

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