Meet my friend Michelle -- a beautiful, sophisticated and exceptionally intelligent year-old woman in New York City. Men are falling all over her left and right, but not too many of them can go toe-to-toe with her.
Every once in a while, though, a keeper comes along. That's when she gets all excited, instantly loses her bearings and calls me to ask in an endearingly helpless tone: Well, I've never made a man fall in love with me, so that's not a recipe in my cookbook. However, I've fallen hard for women before and remember exactly what they did. From those experiences and forays into the scientific literature, I've come up with three ways that a man will fall in love with you.
Straight out of the dating bible for smart womenhere they are:. Consciously or not, every man has a mental archetype of the woman he desires. Once in a blue moon, that woman waltzes into his sights. If that happens to be you, then hallelujah! Let the fireworks begin.
There isn't much you can really do to engineer this kind of love. A man is attracted to a certain physique, face, hair, smell, cultural background, or any other number of elements of which even he himself is not fully aware. You could resemble his first girlfriend. You could be wearing that one perfume that drives him nuts because his first girlfriend used to wear it. Whatever it is, this is the love that cannot be planned. If it happens, great. If not, read on. With enough determination, you can make any man fall in love with you, and the procedure is simpler Attract the man of your dreams hookup you think.
To summarize in three words: Before I elaborate on this, you should know that it's called the devious dastardly way because it's, well, devious and dastardly. Emotional manipulation of people Attract the man of your dreams hookup just plain wrong. I've been on the receiving end of it, and it thoroughly sucked.
I'm including it because I don't believe any woman in her right mind would use this procedure consciously. However, through circumstance and sheer cluelessness, a woman could end up using this procedure unconsciously also known as 'being in your twenties'. And then she's got a man who's borderline stalking her, and she doesn't understand why. Now that you know how this works, it's more likely that you can prevent this inconvenience which is also true for the men who are reading this.
Here's the essence of it. You start out by giving the man attention: Then, you cancel the date at the last minute. This Attract the man of your dreams hookup withdrawingand it puts the man in a tizzy.
He will be hurt and confused, not understanding what happened. He was so close! This is related to what psychologists call an irregular schedule of reinforcement. The sudden withdrawal of reward paradoxically makes the subject try harder and get even more invested. In dolphins, when you suddenly stop giving fish for a jump, they start to jump higher for their reward.